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‘Proposed West Van bylaw a measure to muzzle public discourse’

Below is an open letter council-watcher Melinda Slater wrote to the Mayor and Council of West Vancouver on July 6 regarding proposed Respectful Communications bylaw which will be discussed in Council on July 12.
Melinda Slater
July 8, 2021 11:20am

Dear Mayor & Council,

I am appalled by this proposed Respectful Communications bylaw, which says is intended to promote a safe, healthy, respectful and positive environment for members of the public, staff and Council, but would more accurately be described as a measure to muzzle public discourse by allowing staff to ignore and suppress inquiries that make them feel uncomfortable!

I am appalled that such a bylaw would even be suggested. While no one should be subject to abusive behaviour (and to that end, surely the District already has adequate policies and procedures in place), certainly anyone in public service must expect to deal with difficult inquiries or unhappy citizens from time to time.

This may be vexing, but it is part of the job.

It is hard to imagine that there are so many instances of seriously disrespectful communications that a bylaw is required to protect District staff. If this is indeed the case, it suggests there is a much larger underlying problem that needs to be addressed.

Kindly elaborate on these instances of inappropriate communication (that staff have experienced in increasing frequency) and provide some examples so we may have a better understanding of what staff are dealing with and what is deemed inappropriate.

While some of our public servants (both elected officials and staff) are solicitous, I have been the recipient of disrespectful and offensive communications from District representatives on multiple occasions. For example, I have been falsely accused of misquoting a Councillor and threatened with libel.

The correspondence would well be described as intimidating and humiliating, not to mention unfounded. (The correspondence is part of public record and I am happy to provide a copy to anyone who wishes to peruse it and judge for themselves). And I have had so many disrespectful and offensive emails from Councillor Cameron that I have ceased communicating with him, as to continue to do so is akin to perpetuating an abusive relationship. I know of residents who are too intimidated to speak up and will no longer address Mayor and Council because they are fearful of rebuke, including threats of libel.

I also know of residents who are afraid to raise concerns with District staff as they fear repercussions. I initially dismissed such fear as paranoia until I experienced a series of unpleasant incidences, including being the only home on my block that did not receive a temporary water shut-off notice. This happened twice after I raised concerns about lack of consultation on road work in my neighbourhood. Coincidence? Perhaps, but around the same time, someone at the District also spread false rumours that my “uninsured” vehicle had been parked in front of my home, so I now understand why some residents would feel intimidated by District staff.

The guidelines defining what constitutes inappropriate communication are subjective, allowing staff not to respond to or publish future correspondence from anyone deemed to engage in communications that are vexatious or frivolous or that may cause the subject and/or recipient to feel humiliated or intimidated.

Yet not responding to inquiries is already a common occurrence – so common that it seems to be a deliberate strategy to discourage questions (along with not replying in a timely manner and/or replying with an answer that is not relevant to the question). My most recent correspondence with the District regarding a new Arts Centre is a classic example…

I never received a reply to an inquiry submitted June 16;

I sent another inquiry June 24 and received a reply, which raised more questions;

I sent additional questions June 28 and received the identical reply as had already been provided to my initial inquiry, which did not address the new questions posed;

I sent a follow-up June 29 and to date I have not heard anything further. I expect I never will.

This is but one example and I can provide others. Now I wonder…

Was my recent correspondence about the Arts Centre deemed to be intimidating, humiliating and/or part of a pattern of communications that are frivolous or vexatious?

If this bylaw is implemented, will residents be notified when they are deliberately not receiving a reply? Otherwise, how will one know when a “non-reply” is due to the bylaw or because of another reason, such as the query was misplaced or the District is simply late in responding?

If one doesn’t hear back and then follows up, will this be deemed a pattern of communication that is frivolous or vexatious?

A lot of time and expense has gone into creating policies to protect staff and elected officials from the public, but no thought to protecting citizens from abuse or intimidation from our public servants.

How about conducting an annual Local Government Performance review asking citizens about their satisfaction with the overall performance of staff and Council?

How about implementing communication and service standards to ensure citizens receive an appropriate reply in a timely manner?

I respectfully suggest public servants who do not wish to deal with “frivolous or vexatious” communications from the public, or who are not comfortable dealing with pointed questions or disgruntled residents, may be better suited to another line of work.

Discouraging or hindering residents from communicating with Council and District staff is a form of censorship and an erosion of democracy. It is my sincere wish that Mayor and Council recognize the danger of implementing a policy that would do just that, and register their strong objection to this proposed bylaw.

5 Comments

  1. Franz Gehriger says:
    July 8, 2021 at 11:33 am

    The few times I communicate with District Staff or Council members I always was treated with respect and friendly. I believe if we approach the Council Members and staff in a professional manner we get the same respect from them.
    What we require are enforceable by-laws. The council has to review the by-laws and make sure that staff can enforce them, eg Maintaining the yards and side-walks – inform the owners that they have to maintain them and if not then the District will do it for them but will charge the owners!

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  2. Sharon Tsangarakis says:
    July 8, 2021 at 1:58 pm

    I, too, have always found staff and Council members to be very respectful in communication. There are times when residents are not necessarily respectful, and truth be told, it’s usually when they are carrying a lot of emotion about something. But I have noticed a change in tone (for the negative, unfortunately) in West Vancouver over the last few years. It coincided with the general change in political tone on this continent and indeed, the world. Almost as though people felt emboldened to be disrespectful. It’s sad that a by-law is required, but I think it’s a good idea to have one. It speaks to the values of West Vancouver. And it also means that it applies to and protects both parties in any dialog. I don’t see the problem of having a by-law of this nature. It protects everyone.

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  3. Betty Therriault says:
    July 8, 2021 at 2:11 pm

    I totally agree with Ms. Slater.
    When Navvy Jack Park was to be updated, a notice was posted in the Park that a meeting would be held for public input. The said meeting was never held although I made 2 written requests as well as telephone calls asking when the meeting would be held. This park was donated to the Muni. and once again the public were ignored.

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  4. Terre Swan says:
    July 11, 2021 at 10:16 pm

    I have written a number of letters to council and staff over the past three years requesting factual information regarding developments, potential bylaw changes and policy. I have consistently received respectful and informative replies. Sadly through social media, West Van. blogs and council meetings I have also noticed an increase in misinformation and disrespect directed to West Van. council and staff. If this is also reflected in communications they are receiving on a daily basis I would welcome the proposed Respectful Communications Bylaw that would allow staff and council to get on with the job they were hired to do in a satisfying manner.

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  5. Joanna Baxter says:
    July 12, 2021 at 1:42 pm

    When good manners and respectful listening erode, so do our healthy debates- and this does so much harm to the overall health of our community fabric. Politics is about how we tolerate, listen to, and compromise between differences of ideas and opinions. What is appalling is how WV’s disgruntled have abandoned the very idea of respect towards our elected officials and District staff.
    Threatening language should not ever be tolerated- already painfully seen manifested in many regrettable forms: public vandalism wishing death upon Mayor and Council; a series of poorly-edited defamatory YouTube videos featuring council meetings designed to ridicule and belittle; in council meetings themselves, and in written correspondence.

    We are all entitled to a difference of opinion, and a healthy dialogue which leads to Municipal decisions depends upon many considerations from as many angles. Enough is enough: it’s time we all remembered our manners.

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